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I contemplated booking Malcolm for a coaching session, then immediately realised it wouldn’t work.-Why?? “Because I don’t trust him.”-What? “Yeah, I don’t trust him. I don’t trust any coaching/therapeutic process that hasn’t got my back.”-What do you mean? https://t.co/l3Yn6xC4nQ
“They don’t make space for what I know.”-Oh What do you know? “That I don’t want this.”-This? “Change. This kind of change. It goes against my core wound—autonomy.” https://t.co/DZr3Weft9y
I’m not on the same page as you about this, but I’m on the same meta-page about you on this now, and that’s something. I feel agreement and trust with you about where we’re at—on the meta-page. https://t.co/LGQy0CB9hg https://t.co/KXV3Ooqn1W
“👀 and where’s that” You don’t want/trust change, and I’m desperate for it. There’s something nuanced about what you want, and some need & schema behind what I want, but we’re on the same page about where we are now, and I feel trust working with you on that. “Huh :)”