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yatharth ༺༒༻@AskYatharth• about 4 years ago

The reason it’s right to be suspicious of people like you too fast is they might just like the symbol of you. https://t.co/5D13RU8Nvf

yatharth ༺༒༻@AskYatharth• over 4 years ago

It’s right to be suspicious of love that happens too fast, because 90% of the time, it happens in the symbolic/infatuation way. Love in the “will fucking show up for you” sense and “not just with my symbol of you” sense takes time. https://t.co/MwsSLHcivi

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yatharth ༺༒༻@AskYatharth• about 4 years ago

Replying to @AskYatharth

If you continue with that relationship, you will become the “cute” actor (or whatever they saw) in their lives, and it will hurt. https://t.co/iDGtvLnIi6

yatharth ༺༒༻@AskYatharth• about 4 years ago

It hurts when people want to use you as an actor. You are the “cute” actor in their lives. You are thus disembodied and not truly loved. https://t.co/zOQ2HUsT9J

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yatharth ༺༒༻@AskYatharth• about 4 years ago

Replying to @AskYatharth

There’s a kind of love that says, “Hey, I saw this really cool thing about you. And I want to show you what I saw. AND also I want to find out about all the rest of you.” Keep those. https://t.co/xCRuEHwcox

yatharth ༺༒༻@AskYatharth• about 4 years ago

“I believe in honest communication.” “Like what?” “Like... I’m a guy. I really want to spend the night with you. I 𝘳𝘦𝘢𝘭𝘭𝘺 want you to like me. And I’ll still want those things even if you say no.” There's a power in being able to say that.

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yatharth ༺༒༻@AskYatharth• about 4 years ago

Replying to @AskYatharth

Because they will find out about the rest of you. Even the parts you didn’t know. https://t.co/ezrfVAd09D

yatharth ༺༒༻@AskYatharth• about 4 years ago

Good principle to keep in mind when meeting crushes: you don’t know anything about this person.

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