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beginning to realise this also happens at the level of ourselves internal cooperation https://t.co/ktrM6EILia
@liminal_warmth @tnorthcutt yup in a way I think the thing happening here is, people find it easier to talk about big dreams together, than to make small requests of one another but it's probably by reciprocating and escalating small requests that we best get to the bigger stuff. like with flirting
what to do? how to improve internal coordination? same as with groups: don’t skip levels of collaboration dm your heart first make friends do road-trips with them be friends with them & enjoy their company then you can start doing little projects with them @RichDecibels https://t.co/IHXtqVVa7Z
if you don’t like the “you” voice in your head, you don’t like the you voice in your head it’s really hard to like your “me” when the only relationship you have with yourself is about work . . https://t.co/DqatR8qSA8
why is all this necessary? im beginning to think it’s because no level of collaboration is worth it on its own each new layer has its fragilities, annoyances, etc https://t.co/5jbspMf6aI
vs doing it with a stranger, where you care about nothing but the project, so any roadbumps in the process feel really rocky https://t.co/7H1V8awkvL
what im saying is: friendships are like fluffy pillows under your butt they keep the ride smooth and vibey even when you encounter bumps in the layer above frenship pillows https://t.co/pA90QTdvFC
next time you wanna collaborate with someone, ask em first do you wanna build a friendship pillow? (c'mon let's go and play) (go away anna-okaaay byyye) https://t.co/2RCBq7pI6l
