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Why? Because your crushes are what you see about them, and so much more. https://t.co/lOI7Vb6HbO

Having seen her in person, I can confirm: she is cute, and so much more. Having vibed in person, I can confirm: she is cute, and so much more. That “so much more” is communicating: “you don’t know who she is.” Don’t you dare fall in love with her gates. https://t.co/eqTXDpLS3u

There is both the projection of them, and the person you don’t know at all. https://t.co/RdECgx4Dn9

This is a good thing. It turns every meeting into, “this person is fascinating—whatever will I discover next? ” vs “continuing to wrangle them to play whatever mask you want them to play.” https://t.co/lBaWQbbHmS

I love Whitman because he is simultaneously always taking the piss out of himself and taking himself 100% seriously. https://t.co/j39m7GpUWl https://t.co/FDiafoLO6Q
