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Sex would actually be quite painful if it wasn’t for horny. It’s a fascinating meditative/tantric technique to notice the pain [for both men and women] of sex, even as horny. It transforms your relationship with pleasure, pain, and attachment.

Leaves you, imo, more tender, and accepting, which may just be the foundations for love. https://t.co/clM2CV4ia0

Letting erotic imagination pleasure you is also a great way of keeping your mammal body happy. https://t.co/YBvkoWm5B7

Philosophy is really a patch over not feeling happy mammal socially-loved me. https://t.co/pSkjLNSJs8

Why not use horny? Maybe if it becomes part of form, instead of emptiness. Like self-love, it can becomes ossified and distracting. Guide it continually back to just acceptance and caring. https://t.co/clM2CV4ia0

The value of horny is in guiding you to emptiness through letting you Experience in the moment, and feel empty. https://t.co/57pJ5PcM5L