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got another guy asking for dating advice recently, and a funny thing that stuck with him was sth from my marketing/branding playbook: I asked him to think about the sort of archetype he wants to embody, to imagine how his date would gush about him to her friends in the groupchat
he had never really thought of that before in much detail guys this is $10,000+ advice: think about what kind of impression you want to make don't invent a fake guy that isn't you rather, find the coolest/hottest version of you out there and model your version of that
some women are into suave, charming types some are into quiet, intellectual types some are into outdoorsy types some are into indoorsy types YOU ARE ALREADY SOMEONE'S TYPE. you just need to present yourself accordingly
"no, why would a girl be into a fat depressed sadboy playing video games and smoking weed all day" ok see first you have to stop describing yourself in those terms. oh man. just, go watch queer eye, see the transformations. it takes less than you'd think https://t.co/ASdTYGCJtq
wearing cheap "soldier glasses" (basically a pair you wouldn't mind damaging or losing) made me feel... cheap myself. like I didn't own anything of value, anything worth taking good care of. If you watch Queer Eye (I only really watched the first season) I think they convey this https://t.co/wfIvBX0dDk
i'm not even saying you have to CHANGE those things about yourself you can be a fat sadboy gamer neet and still make her laugh & feel seen but you do have to respect yourself and not be needy at her that requires reworking your self-image, the story you tell yourself abt you
satanic business matador <> goth bitch fit https://t.co/q9fCe5gTL6
@visakanv in some ways this is the job of every artist https://t.co/l5v3XIehSk