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yatharth ༺༒༻@AskYatharthover 4 years ago

How did Focusing start?

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yatharth ༺༒༻@AskYatharthover 4 years ago
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Eugene Gendlin was a philosophy student at UChicago in the 1950s. He was touched by existentialist phenomenology, early pragmatists. He wanted to know—how do ideas come into being? He couldn’t get away from this sense that there was a preverbal sense driving ideas and meaning.

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yatharth ༺༒༻@AskYatharthover 4 years ago
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How do answer the question of how people articulate their ideas? Well, one way is look at therapy. That’s what Gendlin did. He found Carl Rogers, who was leading UChicago’s counselling program, and became a therapist.

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yatharth ༺༒༻@AskYatharthover 4 years ago
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A kick-ass one at that too. He did for years. A student of therapy, a client, and a therapist too. He won awards for this stuff. He was good. Eventually, he started running studies with Carl Rogers to sort what made good therapy work. Why did some clients recover and others not?

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yatharth ༺༒༻@AskYatharthover 4 years ago
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They collected 100s of recordings, and weirdly, they could tell, right from the first session if a client would recover by the year or not. There was a sign right from that session.

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yatharth ༺༒༻@AskYatharthover 4 years ago
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Firstly, the therapist’s presence among the client (my words), and secondly, the client’s presence with their own selves. Those who checked, slowed down, were with the subconscious, automatic, somatic of their experience—they experienced something.

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yatharth ༺༒༻@AskYatharthover 4 years ago
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Change. On these deepest, most subtle of somatic levels. No drama, no IFS. Just a slowing down to the ineffable. A quietness to experience where change happened.

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yatharth ༺༒༻@AskYatharthover 4 years ago
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That quality, of being able to express what one felt in a way that felt true—it was healing, and they received it well. Focusing was the formalisation of this process in a way that was widely teachable and worked to bump more clients into experiencing.

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yatharth ༺༒༻@AskYatharthover 4 years ago
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(Editorialising) But Focusing can only go so far. Therapists can get you to Focus, and I know because they have me, and it can still be empty. You can do all the images right, and it still will be empty.

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yatharth ༺༒༻@AskYatharthover 4 years ago
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Without that desire to change. That quietness and humility . . . and pride in saying what feels truly right. Our brains move too fast, you see. We spin up all sorts of ideas and feelings and even felt senses, to play to an image, and this playing to makes us unhappy.

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yatharth ༺༒༻@AskYatharthover 4 years ago
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More so, it keeps us where we are. One must admit with totality the content of our experience. https://t.co/exQ0piRYiC

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yatharth ༺༒༻@AskYatharthover 4 years ago

No matter what you are doing, even the doing is resisting something else, let yourself do the resisting, and do it actively. This is tantra.

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yatharth ༺༒༻@AskYatharthover 4 years ago
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One must experience a desire firstly to no longer fool the therapist but to truly want change. This is easier said than done. Most of us have no reference points for what that would even look like.

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yatharth ༺༒༻@AskYatharthover 4 years ago
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We are looking for a reality with an oomph to it. Focusing, and truly /feeling/ yes, this /is/ my actual felt experience now, is something else. https://t.co/z16T2zvYKz

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yatharth ༺༒༻@AskYatharthover 4 years ago

Does posting this have an oomph to it? Not quite. It’s starting to. This is already real. I feel I have waited all my life for this moment to step inside the house as people say, “Welcome.” Welcome to a world that feels real, and experiences and actions have that oomph to them

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yatharth ༺༒༻@AskYatharthover 4 years ago
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An entry port into living life like a 1-player game. https://t.co/xHAi6Xwo9H

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yatharth ༺༒༻@AskYatharthalmost 5 years ago

Life is a video game. 📘 The Missing Manual 📘

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yatharth ༺༒༻@AskYatharthover 4 years ago
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Other recomended exercises: - expanded awareness, from Alexander Technique - energy boundary visualisation practices - the Si of MBTI

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yatharth ༺༒༻@AskYatharthover 4 years ago
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Anything to help you develop a sense of control and homeostasis within yourself that lets you forge a ground of true change, rather than a costant battle with the world of LARPing.

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yatharth ༺༒༻@AskYatharthover 4 years ago
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</editorialising> Source for the origin story above: Cornell, A. W. (2013). Focusing in Clinical Practice: The Essence of Change. https://t.co/aJbJOQcT1s

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yatharth ༺༒༻@AskYatharthover 4 years ago
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More on the research basis, with vivid quotes and examples. https://t.co/03K12BEB1R

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yatharth ༺༒༻@AskYatharthover 3 years ago
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oh, and if you haven’t seen this, how a lot of people on this corner of twitter ended up hearing about gendlin https://t.co/wTVVQUSqB2

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yatharth ༺༒༻@AskYatharthalmost 5 years ago

If I had one litany pasted on my door, it would be this. https://t.co/gWZqFqZDoD

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yatharth ༺༒༻@AskYatharthover 3 years ago
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connection to phenomenology, and merleau-ponty https://t.co/PRr71FY1e2

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yatharth ༺༒༻@AskYatharthover 3 years ago

Interesting connection for those of you who’ve heard of Eugene Gendlin or Focusing: Gendlin was initially a philosophy major. part of the reason he came to develop focusing was reading Merleau-Ponty and company. If you haven’t heard of Gendlin: https://t.co/AK5AhBrNS0

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