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yatharth ༺༒༻@AskYatharthover 4 years ago

A Guide to Staying Sane while Dating: by Yatharth, for Yatharth

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yatharth ༺༒༻@AskYatharthover 4 years ago
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1️⃣ Care about her. Give a damn about her, as a person, and there is nothing that can go wrong. You will never lose sight of her. You will never lose sight of yourself. You will stay grounded, fiercely loving.

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yatharth ༺༒༻@AskYatharthover 4 years ago
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You have the meta-vibe. Trust it.

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yatharth ༺༒༻@AskYatharthover 4 years ago
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2️⃣ Feel your gut. It will guide you. It will bring out the flames where there was none. What does she give a damn about? What do you? What would she get up on a stage for and cry to a million people about? Know her answers, because they are what matter.

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yatharth ༺༒༻@AskYatharthover 4 years ago
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3️⃣ Feel your heart. Feel the searing pain. It is not bad you are experiencing it. It will sizzle your belly into delicious, new being. Feel the pain that comes up. Name it, grace it, give collective attention to it. Honour it, because it is what is there to share.

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yatharth ༺༒༻@AskYatharthover 4 years ago
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No one turns down the chance to witness a human being. We just want the container to be held. For the pain to be laughed with. To be cried with. It’s how she’ll know you can take hers.

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yatharth ༺༒༻@AskYatharthover 4 years ago
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I’m phrasing this in the feminine, but taking applications from anyone. DMs are open.

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yatharth ༺༒༻@AskYatharthover 4 years ago
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4️⃣ Feel your balls. Never forget—she is a woman, and she can be loved. Stay open to the constant flirtation with the universe. At first, nothing is erotic, then something is, then it is everything. Including her, including you, and including any way you are being.

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yatharth ༺༒༻@AskYatharthover 4 years ago
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5️⃣ Bring your head. You’re into her. You probably deeply respect her intellect. Sometimes she doesn’t know. AAARGH. Feel as confident or articulate as the tech bros. Sometimes she does. You respect her head, so deeply, intensely connect with it.

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yatharth ༺༒༻@AskYatharthover 4 years ago
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Do not for a second let yourself think mathematics is not aesthetics or the conceptual is not poetic. @LapsusLima taught you this. Don’t forget.

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yatharth ༺༒༻@AskYatharthover 4 years ago
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To do all this is to relentlessly respect yourself. In the end, that’s what I want, for both of you.

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yatharth ༺༒༻@AskYatharthover 4 years ago
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You know what you want, you silly boi, and it is the exact moment when you are in love and awake for it, so go for it. Good luck. https://t.co/kQPH5H3gX1

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yatharth ༺༒༻@AskYatharthover 4 years ago

I just want to love and to be awake for it.

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yatharth ༺༒༻@AskYatharthover 4 years ago
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The most unhideable fact of this thread is that I felt compelled to write it.

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yatharth ༺༒༻@AskYatharthover 4 years ago
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Follow-up thread on 1️⃣ https://t.co/Z565sq8PMR

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yatharth ༺༒༻@AskYatharthover 4 years ago

To see her and wish the best for her is to not go blind. It is to keep my eyes open to the magnificent 1-player game I’m always already playing.

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yatharth ༺༒༻@AskYatharthover 4 years ago
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6️⃣ It’s ok if you already love her. https://t.co/2UmJMKxb7q

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yatharth ༺༒༻@AskYatharthover 4 years ago

It’s possible to say ”I’m into you. I already know it.” AND ”I see you’re not into me, and I’m willing to /vibe with you from there/.”

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yatharth ༺༒༻@AskYatharthover 4 years ago
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7️⃣ At the same time, recognise all the ways you don’t. https://t.co/n4LZxNrSYy

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yatharth ༺༒༻@AskYatharthover 4 years ago

Oh, you love her? Would you sit and talk and watch her cry all night? What if you knew for a fact she wouldn’t fuck you and would never ever like you?

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