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donkey from shrek 2@choosy_momalmost 6 years ago

For a long time I used meditation (mostly vipassana/anapana) to cope with strong negative emotions Somewhat recently I’ve grown suspicious that it’s actually been an avoidance thing

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donkey from shrek 2@choosy_momalmost 6 years ago
Replying to @choosy_mom

Not a knock on meditation at all, it’s mostly about the intention behind it. Generally I’m a more motivated, confident, charitable person when I’m practicing regularly. But think I’m gonna stop using it in crisis mode, maybe try to magnify the feelings instead...

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Lulie@reasonisfunalmost 6 years ago
Replying to @choosy_mom

@choosy_mom Aren't there some kinds of meditation where you do magnify or go into the feelings? @QiaochuYuan @meditationstuff @Malcolm_Ocean Actually yeah, how is the bio-emotive stuff compatible with the observer-of-thoughts/feels thing?

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Malcolm Ocean 🏴‍☠️@Malcolm_Oceanalmost 6 years ago
Replying to @reasonisfun

@reasonisfun @choosy_mom @QiaochuYuan @meditationstuff Very compatible. You encourage the feeling to totally fill up your body and your mind, & yet also, if you have the mental space for it (many don't; meditation helps with this) you also can experience a present witness while *also* being made of sobs. 👁️😭

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Malcolm Ocean 🏴‍☠️@Malcolm_Oceanalmost 6 years ago
Replying to @Malcolm_Ocean

@reasonisfun @choosy_mom @QiaochuYuan @meditationstuff As for *how* to do this, these instructions are kind of a simplified version of Bio-Emotive's NEDERA process and could be a place to start: https://t.co/teB5LvhrbY

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Fiora@FioraAeternaalmost 6 years ago

i was recently shown a method for dealing w/unwanted feelings and its not special or anything but i figure there's some other people out there who never learned it either https://t.co/Rh1T1TKB1P

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donkey from shrek 2@choosy_momalmost 6 years ago
Replying to @Malcolm_Ocean

@Malcolm_Ocean @reasonisfun @QiaochuYuan @meditationstuff Thanks for pointing back towards this—I think I'm somewhere between 2 and 3 right now Crying hard is a hard thing (h/t @QiaochuYuan + twitter sob squad for continuing to normalize this) and right now I think it is the most promising way forward

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Malcolm Ocean 🏴‍☠️@Malcolm_Oceanalmost 6 years ago
Replying to @choosy_mom

@choosy_mom @reasonisfun @QiaochuYuan @meditationstuff Sob Squad. Wow. Yup, that's going in my twitter bio: 😭😎 #SobSquad Making crying hard not just normal but *cool* https://t.co/A8EKzzTnZk

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QC@QiaochuYuanover 5 years ago
Replying to @Malcolm_Ocean

@Malcolm_Ocean @choosy_mom @reasonisfun @meditationstuff alright i'm in let's make #SobSquad happen https://t.co/udUPw9IFxb

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