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Visakan Veerasamy@visakanv• about 6 years ago

Wife and I are laughing tonight about one of our silliest fights from a week ago - when we review our past fights together, it seems like every fight begins with someone sending the other a fight proposal/request, and the other person accepting it 😂

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Visakan Veerasamy@visakanv• about 6 years ago
Replying to @visakanv

fights are almost never about the thing that you’re fighting over

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Visakan Veerasamy@visakanv• about 6 years ago
Replying to @visakanv

you shouldn’t have to argue about *how* you’re fighting, *while* you’re fighting trying to do both at once is a quick way to compound your frustration with each other and make things worse for everybody the smart thing to do is to schedule relationship maintenance in advance

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