Me: âone of my friends was just talking about thisâ
Gf: âfriend talkingâ? Or âvaguely parasocial twitter mutual writing a thread about itâ
Me:
Your parents are not uniquely triggering because of their status as parents.
Itâs because their speech includes the accumulation of every small frustration, expectation, and desire theyâve ever had for you.
Their language *doesnât live in the present* and neither does yours.
@credenzaclear2 @_Sowellsista_ Every man is this deep down, but itâs trapped underneath a cape of self-loathing brought on by the rejections of thousands of pretty girls
Iâm reading Dune for the first time and (slightly) surprised at just how much ingroup thinking seems to reflect the bookâs world. I might start tweeting unattributed Dune quotes as engagement bait
Someone Iâve been friendly with has decided to use DMT a lot (starting about 6 months ago) and I am convinced he has broken his mind entirely.
I feel pretty uncomfortable thinking about what heâs risked and lost.
I think itâs very sad.
Lobster traps only catch ~6% of the lobsters that enter them
The other 94% escape â most of them just leave through the entrance
This is so funny to me
@shinboson This is the most moving thing Iâve read in ages.
Iâm crying while I imagine what it must have felt like for both of them.
I have regrets and I know what loss feels like and maybe Tim does, too.
The year is 2045. Youâve been called in front of the House Unaligned Activities Committee. The sentient robot congressman faces you down and asks, for the third consecutive time, âAre you now, or have you ever been, a twitter follower of Eliezer Yudkowsky?â
@the_wilderless âExistence is Goodâ is functionally equivalent to âThe Universe Loves Youâ is functionally equivalent to âGod Loves Youâ is functionally equivalent to âJesus Christ died for your sinsâ
@fuehrerking Classical Hollywood melodramas typically restore order at the end of the film, but only after indulging in transgressive path for the bulk of the filmâs duration. The âhappy endingâ was plausible deniability but the imagery and fantasy of transgression was always the point (1/2)
@visakanv My nephew says âuh-ohâ just before he does something he knows isnât right
âUh-oh!â *throws a toy onto the ground*
âUh-oh!â *drops food on the floor*
âUh-oh!â *hits his mom in the face*
@eigenrobot I wonder if using crime stats to influence our ideas of who should be allowed to vote might cause other problems and/or create a more insane discourse
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@fuehrerking For a film to indulge in a world, and visually celebrate it (even ambivalently), often undercuts the social criticism implied by the denouement.
A film that gets this wrong often works counter to its own explicit ends, especially when it aims to critique from the inside (2/2)
@thechosenberg This makes sense to me! The set of people who âdonât want kidsâ includes a fair amount of people who today donât actively want kids, but may change their mind when they get older.
Becoming a person who lives and speaks in the present is downstream of a lot of inner change. It requires a constant presence of forgiveness and kindness.
I want my language â what I speak and what I hear â to live more in the present.
You have tens of thousands of hours of practice listening to and interpreting their every word, just as they do with yours.
It was a condition of survival (for you as an infant) and for giving and receiving love (for you and for them, at every age)
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A few of you know that I have deep experience in B2B Marketing for institutional crypto & in Product more generally.
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Speaking in the present does not mean forgetting about your shared history.
Your history should be a sail that lets you move forward faster, not an anchor that keeps you stuck in the same place.
@michaelcurzi Reminds me of how Japan apparently heard from Nazi propaganda about how Jews control the world and decided they needed to import Jews to make Japan stronger lol
The same dynamics are true with romantic partners, siblings, friends, work colleagues, or any close relationship with a shared history.
Iâm just thinking about parents because Iâm visiting mine for Thanksgiving this week ;)
I donât read DT very much.
Heâs a great writer, but a few times heâs taken me on an emotional journey only to undercut it with a nihilistic twist at the end. Iâve learned to keep my guard up.
This is everything I want from him â real feeling, respect for love and loss. https://t.co/2WDPar8Usu
One major cause of psychic distress is (the fear of) succeeding in your revealed preference but not in your stated preference, since youâve tricked your conscious self into believing that your stated preference is your true preference (but your full self knows better)
@imperialauditor A lot of Bene Gesserit training/thinking could easily be meditation advice from this corner of twitter
A world where that training/thinking is a successful tool for navigating the word seems decidedly âpostrationalistâ somehow
Focusing on Present Speech gives me a way to strive to be better with and for other people.
Itâs less about me and more about me-in-the-world.
The change happens in the heart.
I can hold myself accountable in the world because speech is an action.
@lndian_Bronson Or they are those who spend 19 hours per day jumping through hoops set by others, will follow any set of instructions (no matter how useless) in order to get a gold star
Letâs play a game
You confess a secret ambition you have that you think might be too ambitious to actually achieve
And I will help you A) 10x the ambition and B) make it actually feasible
Who wants to play?
If Gandhi* tweeted âFirst they ignore you, then they laugh at you, then they fight you, then you winâ today, someone would reply with a picture of an airplane covered in red dots
* he didnât say it, ok fine https://t.co/9KqK1dgdld
@ESYudkowsky @FerrisHueller NYTimes, Oct 2022: âThis new TikTok trend has teens eating a picture of a bearded man. But who is Eliezer Yudkowsky, and what is âalignmentâ?â
Scottâs âAt this point I think it would be cheaper to just hire professional dominatricesâ implies that thereâs a more effective version of EA that *does* hire dominatrices, thus freeing EAs from guilt as a primary decision-making input and unlocking better resource allocation https://t.co/iYfvZ0b7An